it's not ok

• to put your hands on a child in anger
• to cause a bruise on a child that lasts over a week
• to hurt the child so emotionally they feel the hurt as if it is new when they talk about it
• to try and make the child feel that they weren't abused

However, the boy is doing well with all he's been through. The girl is doing good as well. We are all dealing and talking, and keeping them feeling safe and loved. Our family and friends are awesome, with their blessings, prayers, hugs, and support!

Oh, and the kids LOVE their bedrooms too! The girl has been sleeping in her bed every night (after she falls asleep next to me, but it's a move forward)!